Blatant Revelations....Finally!

10 ways of meeting men for Gen 2.0
All single ladies out there...have you ever felt, that you are "over the age of making friends"? Have you ever thought, "how am I ever going to meet my man", 'coz none of those school/college boys and tuition friends are good enough? This, should be interesting for you then...

From some of my personal, and some borrowed, but an absolute real set of ways of meeting your Mr.Right - I can think of atleast ten new ways of bumping into a man that can share your dreams. All you have to do is, be open to it.

1. Airport - Now you ALWAYS have full 45mins here before you board, unless you are taking an international flight (that only gives you more). Watch out for a man watching you here. If you are open to a talk, he'll sure come by and swing his business card...
2. Theatre / Cinema hall - Have you ever had a group of guys giggling & noticing you at a theatre? What about if they end up sitting next to you! This is full <minimum> 2hrs for them to talk some. I am not promoting share your mobile number right here. But take his!
3. Night Club / Bar - Believe it or not, good men also go to night clubs. The best place ...Don't look at everyone who walks upto you as a jerk. Believe me, it takes balls to do that. Appreciate it, and then...the boy might even be good looking! ;-)
4. Inside a plane - One of the only places where you have captive minimum 1.5hrs with the person next to you. Like I said, be open. All he has to do is be good looking and speak well. Aint it?
P.S. This is one of the personals...if the guy is reading this, he would know what I am talking about!
5. Gym - Oh yea, this too! Some good hulks come here ladies. Look out. How about your personal trainer himself? :)
6. Public Transport - Metros? You see the same guy catching the same train / bus at the same time every single day. And he is noticing you. Great start.
7. Hitch - Another Ripleys, this one. Believe me, I have given one and I have gotten one. Both cases, the luck was good. Great infact. Now beware here, you have to make some snap decisions - judging the person from clothes, accessories, look etc. This can be dangerous.
8. Neighbors - Now this is nothing new, I have seen neighbors get married for donkey yrs. But how much do we actually look out in our neighborhood these days? This is another great place for a start. Great.
9. Salsa - Oh boy! This can be joined only by couples...and every second guy here is looking for a partner. Join Now!
10. SOCIAL NETWORKING - Do I say more? This shit works ladies! Facebook is what everyone says, but my full-hearted vote goes to LinkedIn :)

Now I am really not advocating distributing your mobile number or P.O.Boxes to every cute looking guy out there. You obviously have to make a lot of decisions...well, and <hopefully> only one of these will work for each. So no distribution. Be careful, but not shut down for being over cautious. And then you might not get married to every guy you meet, but then, what the heck! That's not always what we are looking at right? Ladies, tell me how it was! :)

Can we get rid of those oggling men in this country?

Try sari in a night-club in India!!

Dark - fair, young - middle aged, covered - non-covered, rich - poor...women in India can find fan-following everywhere in India! How good is that ladies?

For the fact that I wear western clothes, my hair is still black and I live alone...I have come to a point where I find it annoying when men pretend they are interested...seriously! Though saying "no" 8 times in one night was something that happened after a VERY long time...

This was in Bangalore. It was 11.30PM, in a 5-star I won't name...the club that was made to look shut down from outside. And when you enter it...oh boy! The blunder I made was walk in a sari....the DJ would shut down after every 1 hour, and open only on the condition that all ladies in the house will have flaming shots on the bar counter. Well...ofcourse I was obeying! So in a sari, drunk...and with my bosses....I was there drinking, dancing, fighting, making faces...

There came the 1st guy...."Excuse me. You are wearing a sari (Oh really? I dint even notice! :-| ). Can I buy you a drink" (as if that made any sense!). "No" was all I said. about 12mins later, another one - "Hey! My friend there says you are dancing very well. I agree with him. Can I pls dance with you". (oh that...huh f*** off) "No" was all I said. In 24mins...another one - "Maam, I don't want to sound intruding, but can I pls dance with you?" (f***! You are so unique!) "No" was all I said. And another one, and another. By 2.00AM, I had to call two bouncers and ask them to stand around the pillar where our big group was semi-stationed.

I have started disliking night clubs in India... <<damn!>>

Women buying beer from local stores in India...

Is it a crime I was made a woman? On top of that, I am considerably young\...AND I happen to be a beer drinker!!
My first time buying alcohol from a local store was in Pune...since I knew NOONE...and I needed some beer...April'10 was my first experience! Women...are you listening?
So I am driving back from work. This young store owner, terribly busy at 7pm on a fri, stops to look  - A young chick, formal trouser, button-down tucked-in shirt, belt, high heels, walking out of a ford, comes upto him and looks. The store is over flowing with local men. More than the crowd, I was conscious of the owner (atleast he looked like one!). The commotion at the store stops. Every-freakin-body turns around. Oops! I speak loudly, Tuborg? The owner-like guy nods. "3 bottles". "Rs.180...pulees". Every other motion is still at a stand still...."here...thank you!". The bottles kinkling in that little black bag, a bunch of drunkards whispering and owner staring...I leave....
Boy! I swore to myself...never again! Fuck this!
What happens next is unbelievable...stay tuned.

Ladies...you thought you've run out of option??

Ladies...In India,still single... Hi!

Did you ever think you were dying a single? You don't "love" the idea of an arranged wedding, and you don't "love" a man as of now...you were (according to Indian standards) about age...and still a single? What! Well, you are not alone sweetheart...read on...

Millions of urban women in India today, are made to feel like shit, only 'coz they are over 25yrs of age, and nowhere close to getting married! Is this all women are made for? Fuck NO! Do you agree? You know, you can meet a man in a plane, on a street, or a club...and believe me, even today, he can be THE man...

Follow me...am going to talk of all my personal experiences very soon...ciao!