10 ways of meeting men for Gen 2.0
All single ladies out there...have you ever felt, that you are "over the age of making friends"? Have you ever thought, "how am I ever going to meet my man", 'coz none of those school/college boys and tuition friends are good enough? This, should be interesting for you then...
From some of my personal, and some borrowed, but an absolute real set of ways of meeting your Mr.Right - I can think of atleast ten new ways of bumping into a man that can share your dreams. All you have to do is, be open to it.
1. Airport - Now you ALWAYS have full 45mins here before you board, unless you are taking an international flight (that only gives you more). Watch out for a man watching you here. If you are open to a talk, he'll sure come by and swing his business card...
2. Theatre / Cinema hall - Have you ever had a group of guys giggling & noticing you at a theatre? What about if they end up sitting next to you! This is full <minimum> 2hrs for them to talk some. I am not promoting share your mobile number right here. But take his!
3. Night Club / Bar - Believe it or not, good men also go to night clubs. The best place ...Don't look at everyone who walks upto you as a jerk. Believe me, it takes balls to do that. Appreciate it, and then...the boy might even be good looking! ;-)
4. Inside a plane - One of the only places where you have captive minimum 1.5hrs with the person next to you. Like I said, be open. All he has to do is be good looking and speak well. Aint it?
P.S. This is one of the personals...if the guy is reading this, he would know what I am talking about!
5. Gym - Oh yea, this too! Some good hulks come here ladies. Look out. How about your personal trainer himself? :)
6. Public Transport - Metros? You see the same guy catching the same train / bus at the same time every single day. And he is noticing you. Great start.
7. Hitch - Another Ripleys, this one. Believe me, I have given one and I have gotten one. Both cases, the luck was good. Great infact. Now beware here, you have to make some snap decisions - judging the person from clothes, accessories, look etc. This can be dangerous.
8. Neighbors - Now this is nothing new, I have seen neighbors get married for donkey yrs. But how much do we actually look out in our neighborhood these days? This is another great place for a start. Great.
9. Salsa - Oh boy! This can be joined only by couples...and every second guy here is looking for a partner. Join Now!
10. SOCIAL NETWORKING - Do I say more? This shit works ladies! Facebook is what everyone says, but my full-hearted vote goes to LinkedIn :)
Now I am really not advocating distributing your mobile number or P.O.Boxes to every cute looking guy out there. You obviously have to make a lot of decisions...well, and <hopefully> only one of these will work for each. So no distribution. Be careful, but not shut down for being over cautious. And then you might not get married to every guy you meet, but then, what the heck! That's not always what we are looking at right? Ladies, tell me how it was! :)
All single ladies out there...have you ever felt, that you are "over the age of making friends"? Have you ever thought, "how am I ever going to meet my man", 'coz none of those school/college boys and tuition friends are good enough? This, should be interesting for you then...
From some of my personal, and some borrowed, but an absolute real set of ways of meeting your Mr.Right - I can think of atleast ten new ways of bumping into a man that can share your dreams. All you have to do is, be open to it.
1. Airport - Now you ALWAYS have full 45mins here before you board, unless you are taking an international flight (that only gives you more). Watch out for a man watching you here. If you are open to a talk, he'll sure come by and swing his business card...
2. Theatre / Cinema hall - Have you ever had a group of guys giggling & noticing you at a theatre? What about if they end up sitting next to you! This is full <minimum> 2hrs for them to talk some. I am not promoting share your mobile number right here. But take his!
3. Night Club / Bar - Believe it or not, good men also go to night clubs. The best place ...Don't look at everyone who walks upto you as a jerk. Believe me, it takes balls to do that. Appreciate it, and then...the boy might even be good looking! ;-)
4. Inside a plane - One of the only places where you have captive minimum 1.5hrs with the person next to you. Like I said, be open. All he has to do is be good looking and speak well. Aint it?
P.S. This is one of the personals...if the guy is reading this, he would know what I am talking about!
5. Gym - Oh yea, this too! Some good hulks come here ladies. Look out. How about your personal trainer himself? :)
6. Public Transport - Metros? You see the same guy catching the same train / bus at the same time every single day. And he is noticing you. Great start.
7. Hitch - Another Ripleys, this one. Believe me, I have given one and I have gotten one. Both cases, the luck was good. Great infact. Now beware here, you have to make some snap decisions - judging the person from clothes, accessories, look etc. This can be dangerous.
8. Neighbors - Now this is nothing new, I have seen neighbors get married for donkey yrs. But how much do we actually look out in our neighborhood these days? This is another great place for a start. Great.
9. Salsa - Oh boy! This can be joined only by couples...and every second guy here is looking for a partner. Join Now!
10. SOCIAL NETWORKING - Do I say more? This shit works ladies! Facebook is what everyone says, but my full-hearted vote goes to LinkedIn :)
Now I am really not advocating distributing your mobile number or P.O.Boxes to every cute looking guy out there. You obviously have to make a lot of decisions...well, and <hopefully> only one of these will work for each. So no distribution. Be careful, but not shut down for being over cautious. And then you might not get married to every guy you meet, but then, what the heck! That's not always what we are looking at right? Ladies, tell me how it was! :)
I dunno about the ladies, but i loved this piece! Very well written! I didnt know about the hidden talent miss pania.. cheers !
ReplyDeletehaha thanks Gaurav! Though written for ladies primarily, but glad you liked it! :-)
ReplyDeletewell its funny and makes a good read :)
ReplyDeleteSo i see you have mentioned hitch as one of the options to find good men. well i do remember one incident of offering a lady a lift to her office guest house, does that qualify me to be good. your inputs please
ReplyDeleteAshish
superliked :)
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